Saturday 18 January 2014

Celebrities by Birth!




In our daily life, we plan to do a number of tasks. Some of them are short term; some are on long term orientation. Whatever we do, there comes a need to fulfil the pre-requisites of that particular activity.

For example, if you want to wake up early in the morning. You might set an alarm for it, or may ask your family member to wake you up, or you might be an early bird so you plan to go early to the bed for you may get up early in the morning. There are sort of things that we do before accomplishing any day to day activity. Similarly, there is always a purpose behind doing anything. Even if you want to sleep, it might be because of several purposes. Like you might be too tired to stay awake, you might have eaten well that may cause you fall asleep, or you might have nothing to do so you went asleep etc.

There is a sharp cause and effect relationship in our daily life. A few days back I was learning about the increasing rate of suicide attempts. They all had a variety of reasons behind. Some people had a failure in love, others were messed up with poverty, and the people who had a great lose all in a sudden and even the students who could not get good grades in exams attempted suicide etc.

We often listen a couple of famous words:

“The world is residing on hope.”

As soon as we lose hope, we lose what we are. And when hope comes to an end, people bring their lives to an end. But it is not only about hope and happiness for which a life can be given worth. Instead there is another important aspect, called the RESPONSIBILITY for which we are blessed with life. We can never ever find, even a single thing or a process in the world which is of no use but exists. Human being is the most complicated and amazing creature, so how can we think that we don’t have any purpose of life left?

Neglecting a duty can’t justify that we are not accountable of it. I don’t find any task of everyday life which is not abide by a number of causes and generates a number of effects. It makes sense that we are living in a world, which is versatile in nature. So, everything in it is having versatile purposes.  Then how can we associate our lives to only one or a few purposes? No, this doesn't make sense. We being the most amazing and complicated creature must have various purposes of our life. If we don’t get success in one, must try figuring out the other and work for it.

If you don’t find any purpose of your life any-more (after a certain failure or a destined success) just look around yourself, the environment in your living area and outside it. You’ll find a number of reasons to live for.

You’ll see the beautiful nature to study,
the deprived people asking for your help, 
that little child whose parents are gone will be looking for livelihood and shelter from you, 
that boy being pissed in child labour asking for a favour to get educated, 
that lady whose children have left her in an old age home might ask you for some kind words and respect, that old man who is having a load on his back might be looking for you to ask him for rest, 
that girl whose parents are not able to afford dowry might need your help to get her married, 
the drugged person on the road corner asking for rehabilitation, 
an alone person looking for a shoulder to shed tears on, 
the poor dying person in need of medication for his life, 
and you’ll find a person going for suicide will be in need of your words for telling him there is a lot to do don’t go for suicide as life is a priceless one time opportunity to spread smiles on the faces of people.

Yes! We are not worthless; we are needed in some way or the other. The world, the nature really needs you so you were born.

If I summarise the cause and effect of our lives, it comes to be as simple as:
Cause: The nature needed us
Effect: We took birth


So, if we don’t spend our lives for the cause. We are really accountable for it one day. Don’t let people go without working for the cause of life. Realize yourself and make others realize themselves. Help is always needed from strong and valued people. We are born because nature needs us for greater accomplishments, so are Celebrities By Birth.

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Saturday 11 January 2014

Oh Shit!



"Oh No! Oh Shit!" are the words, spoken, when we see something wrong in our surroundings. I happen to think on this as I noticed that whenever someone use to talk about the bitter realities of the society, that were unsought before, people say" Oh Shit! don't talk about such things." .

No doubt, there are certain things that are emerging and enveloping our society in a way causing fatal diseases to the spirituality, mentality and personal growth of a person. And we happen to listen from our elders that when they were of our age, the things were not so worse as they are now. Further, there are such people who are ignorant of the evils prevailing in our society. So, when we talk about those destructive things the listener says "Kindly don't tell me these things, they are shameful." . This is enough to prove that those acts are really abusive in nature and STILL HAPPENING in-spite of the presence of the people who think they are bad, no matter we admit it or not.

For example, I was telling a friend of mine (she is a noble girl) that I have come to know the excessive rate of fornication (in the name of love) in the young generation. And she just said (for the sake of her purity) that "Leave it, what are we talking about.". This is how the majority of our people respond. At that time I happen to think, this behaviour of our is like "We don't feel bad until our food is in our stomach in the form of waste and we don't see that, but as we excrete that, we even don't wish to see. And we look it somewhere, we act like 'Oh shit!' "

Are the evils and bad only things those what we know? And what if we don't know them even if they exist??

One of my teachers (Mr. Saleem Raza) said one day:

"We must know the evil, if we want to eradicate it."

What I think should be the response is: if we come to know an evil of the society, be curious to know about it. So that, you may save yourself from it and educate others not to be a part rather saving yourself from listening it. If we continue to turn our face from all these things, I think, we'll be answerable one day for this blunder. It's like, a person is making yourself KNOW what is happening and you are choosing the way to be ignorant.

For example, what if someone say that tsunami is about to hit your city? Will you just put your hands on ear not to listen or will you rush to save yourself and telling others to leave the area or make some protective arrangements? And you'll run for your life and to save others, because you know tsunami is destructive.

I believe, that same should be the response when you hear about the evils of the society. Know your responsibility, as it is useless to turn your back to what you are accountable for. So that there will be a win win paradigm across the world.

And don't forget, "it is never too late to better yourself." . Because people are born on a good nature and that's the essence of life.


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