The Two Everlasting Relationships

Human beings have a thirst to be in touch with other people, being the social animals. The hierarchy starts from our parents to siblings to siblings of parents, grand parents, friends, teachers, official contacts, the personal relationships and so on. Now, what do we do is, sneaking around the changing values and trends to keep these relationships stronger and beneficial. This takes the whole life of a person to make efforts in order to keep the people happy. But what does it return, in general, we just keep on trying over and over again but can never be up-to the mark for anyone. Ultimately, we just repent for spending our whole life running after the relationship and circles for having nothing valuable in the long run.

Let's take a view what does happen when we reach the extreme of dis-obedience or hurting someone:

• Parents can say, go away you are not our child
• Siblings say, go away you are not able to be called my brother/sister.
• Other maternal and paternal relations will also dis-own us.
• Friends can leave us in the mid-way, saying, you does not fit good for my friendship
• Spouse can give you a divorce 
• A future spouse can ask for a break-up

and that becomes all for what we've been running after. 

But still there are two relationships that can never be broken, come what may. And they are:

• Your relationship with yourself
• Your relationship with God

No matter, how much cruel you are, how much evil lies in you, how much hateful personality you possess or how bigger sinner you are... You can not dis-own yourself, it's always yours... And God does not say that you don't belong to Him..

So, the need is to make a firm bonding with yourself and with God. Problem arises when we don't value ourselves and we break our bond with God... it just misleads us, makes us lost in ourselves and does not lead us becoming a good human being.

If you want to explore the world, first try finding yourself. If you want to make good relationships with others, you need to make a good relationship with yourself and the God because these are most easy to go with and won't let you go ever, as well.

Remember!

If you want to think out of the box, you must learn what is inside the box.

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